A billion people can't be wrong.
Rice, lentils, and why every family deserves one meal that always knows what to do.
My husband says this almost every time I make rice and lentils.
I have absolutely no idea whether a billion people actually eat some version of this combo every day. I’ve never looked it up. The number feels emotionally true.
Whatever the number is, they’re onto something.
I’ve made rice and lentils almost every week for years. Usually the little red lentils that cook quickly, but I have been known to muck around with mung beans also.
I ate it when I was pregnant with Wilson and it was my first meal when I got home from the hospital with him.
Making our weekly pot of rice and lentils while pregnant with Wilson, 2013.
It was one of the first meals he learned to love, and one of the few things he has never stopped asking for. Neighbors’ kids have wandered into our kitchen and polished off bowls after their parents confidently announced, “There’s no chance they’ll eat lentils.” It’s now on the menu every year at our annual bash for Halloween trick-or-treating as a pre stomach coat before the sugar rush. We came in from a 20+ hour travel day at nearly 11 p.m. and my craving was so strong for it I had onions and ginger frying before I had brought the bags in from the entryway. Once, during a cyclone in Fiji, I found myself making it with whatever I could scrounge together because in the middle of that travel mess all we wanted was comfort and familiarity.
It has become less of a recipe than a reflex.
The older I get, the more I appreciate having a handful of things in life that don’t require a decision.
We spend an extraordinary amount of energy trying to optimize everything. Morning routines. Workout splits. Supplements. Productivity systems. Most of them have their place.
But along with things like naps and a clean house, one of life’s quiet luxuries is knowing exactly what you’re making for dinner.
It isn’t glamorous.
In fact, if you came here looking for browned butter or perfectly jammy caramelized onions, you’ve taken a spectacularly wrong turn.
This combo is practical, flexible and fool-proof.
It’s inexpensive. It freezes beautifully. It asks very little of you. It delivers protein, fiber, warmth, and the peculiar comfort that is hard to put into words.
More importantly, it removes one decision from my day. That leaves me with a little more energy for the people I’d rather spend it on.
I’ve started wondering whether every family needs one meal like this.
A meal that everyone will eat, that mostly comes from the pantry, that forgives imprecise measurements, and that still feels like someone cared.
A meal you can make when you’ve had a great day. Or a terrible one.
Or a day so thoroughly ordinary that you can’t imagine deciding what to cook one more time.
Nearly every culture has some version of this pairing. Sometimes born from necessity. Sometimes from tradition. Always because it works. Some combination of grains and legumes has sustained families around the world for centuries, long before anyone started calculating macros.
There is something reassuring about realizing that nourishment doesn’t have to be complicated to be satisfying.
FIELD NOTES
I hesitate to call this a recipe because I almost never make it the same way twice.
That’s the beauty of it.
Start with red lentils as they cook the fastest. Rinse them if you remember. If you don’t, life goes on.
Put a splash of olive oil in a pot and soften an onion. Add garlic and ginger. Fresh if you have it, the tube/jar if you don’t. I use both without guilt. And for those of you in the States, these frozen ones from Traders Joes are the best and even Bon Appetit approved.
For flavor, you could add about a tablespoon of tomato paste to the pan before you add the lentils and stock.
I toss in the lentils and stir them around for a minute, almost like risotto. I have no idea whether this actually matters, but I’ve convinced myself the little legumes suck up some flavor. This is when I add a tablespoon of curry powder. If you have garam masala on hand, toss some in as well. And cumin. My favorite spice.
Add water or stock (I actually prefer bone broth for the extra punch of protein). Let simmer until the lentils are soft.
I personally love adding a can of coconut milk, not a must but sure makes it really creamy.
Cook whatever rice you have in the cupboard.
Salt it up at the end is my recommendation. I still swear by this garlic salt.
The real tip, lemon 🍋. Hit it at the end with a lemon juice and it transforms.
If you have time and inclination, cook a little cumin seed, mustard seed, garlic, or chili in butter or olive oil and pour it over the top. If you don’t, it will still taste good.
Finish with yogurt, chili crunch, a samosa (I get mine pre made/frozen from an Indian grocer), pumpkin seeds, chopped cucumbers, cilantro, spinach, roasted vegetables, leftover chicken, a fried egg, or absolutely nothing at all.
The measurements change.
The principle doesn’t.
Find one meal that asks almost nothing of you and gives quite a lot back.
You’ll make it far more often than the complicated recipes you’ve carefully saved for someday.



Yummmmmmmmm!
OK, I’ve got one of many questions. What type of onion and how do you soften an onion?